All About Me

Nearly all of my working life I have worked with men, either on Army camps or RAF bases from the young age of twenty-one. I have been married three times and engaged twice other than the ones I married. I worked on sex chat lines for sixteen years and have been an escort/dominatrix for four years.

So, what I don't know or have not discovered about turning men on is not worth knowing. I have talked about every taboo subject under the sun. I am a very sexual, naughty, dirty bitch is my most popular name. I have explored every depraved, perverted fantasy and fetish there is going.

Download my explicit of the erotic audios I have on offer, pick one or three and enjoy my dirty imagination and sexy voice, I know you will be cummimg back for more! Let's all iwank today!  All to be found on Amazon.

What I offer here is a combination of recorded stories I call them iwanks because they are a bit like itunes except, far dirtier. I won't be singing to you, that's for sure!

Just Me

Although I have been involved in the sex industry for over two decades writing as always been my first passion. I discovered this late in life, aged thirty-six. The creation of a world handwritten or typed it now just gives me the biggest buzz ever.

Back in 2000, I had watched a documentary on Channel 4 about single mums who once their kids were at school, logged on to a sex chat company to earn extra money at their own pace. Straight away I knew that was the job for me. It was the perfect solution for me because I could do the hours to fit around my daily life as a carer for my ailing mother.

I had been around men most of my working life working alongside the armed forces, Army for five years and RAF fifteen years and in fact, I was married to an RAF chef for ten of those years.  After being away for several years I rather missed the banter. As I was always a "suggestive digestive", a bit of a flirty girty you could say.  Not long into the job, however, I realised I had this outrageously, dirty imagination.

I had discovered my writing abilities a few years before and was able to perfect my writing further sharing and developing sexual fantasies to a whole new level. I found myself creating little fantasy worlds for my callers and thanks to this spontaneous creativity my writing developed into the erotica genre. I now had the ability to not just talk dirty by helping the caller to imagine smell, taste and feel their fantasy with my graphic intense description.

Of course, when friends, family and sometimes strangers who frequented my regular hairdressers discovered my new career ladies were eager to know more about what turns men on.  So, I wrote my book… ‘How to Talk Dirty, A Hands-On Guide to Phone Sex’. The rest, as they say, is history.

Since the documentary, I have since been a regular guest on radio Fubar's Sex Chat. I have been part of a relationship advice panel in the Metro Newspaper. I have been interviewed on This Morning, daytime T.V. by Eamon Holmes and his lovely wife Ruth. Pamela Stevenson, Billy Connely's wife was the special guest that day and also a sex therapist. She was very lovely and welcoming as we chatted that day.

​I have also written articles for a woman’s online magazine, Rude Magazine and for an American men's online magazine, over in New York called 'Stuff Dudes Like'.  I was also interviewed by several top magazines including Mayfair, Escort, Closer, More, Reveal and Love It!

​And, thanks to the documentary, ‘My Phone Sex Secrets’ which you can now enjoy on YouTube, I had been training girls for over three years in the art of talking dirty. Some of whom have become successful chat girls and are now expert in handling cocks!

Then, some years later and quite by chance, I became an escort and discovered so much more about men and their desires, fetishes and obsessions. Within a few months of being an escort, the demand for me to become a dominatrix stirred up the desire for me to live out this life, grew ever stronger.

In doing so it unleashed a darker and sinister side to my psyche that until now had laid dormant. When this happened, my involvement with the clients' bizarre requests suddenly knew no boundaries which often gave way to my pushing them to their limits and beyond. This was why they came to me and I was more than happy to oblige.

Now, here’s my latest offering, 'I Prefer My Men Whipped and Shaken' and boy, how some of them shake not just from nerves or embarrassment but from my favourite emotion, fear. Fear of my 'no limits' and no 'safe words' policy because in my house, blood will flow!